Showing posts with label tikkun. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tikkun. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Path to Tikkun: the Four Worlds


In my previous post, I promised that I would talk about a path to tikkun. First I want to summarize my back-of-the-match-book rationale for Judaism:

Tikkun in Hebrew simply means repair or fixing.
  • The problem: We feel broken, we feel that the whole universe is a broken place.
  • The solution: Find and do your tikkun, your sacred task that you and you alone can perform in stitching up a rip in the fabric of the universe. It doesn't matter if you start by fixing a rip out there in the world or a rip in your own heart. To repair the one is to repair the other.
  • The path or practice to tikkun: The Practice of the Four Worlds
Tikkun in Hebrew simply means repair or fix. It has come to mean far more than that: personal and world salvation, healing, recovery from addiction ... (where am I going with this? Where does this belong?)


Here are the four worlds of the ketubbah - sacred covenanting -
from highest to lowest:

Atzilut - world of divine purpose. For what
purpose has our couplehood come together?
to fix what rip in the fabric of the
universe?

Bri'ah - Steven Covey world of principles and
values, that support the sacred purpose of our couple-dom.

Yetzirah - how am I wired-up emotionally?
What are my emotional strengths and weaknesses? How can the couple
accomodate my yetzer? How can the couple amplify my strengths and convert
my so-called deficiencies into strength. Because, to accomplish
our holy job as a couple, we will need all our energies, both those
embedded in our so-called strengths, and yes, those energies
embedded in our so-called weaknesses.

Ask the same questions of the couple as if it were an autonomous entity.

Asiyyah - this is the world of the traditional ketubbah:
pre-nuptial agreement, divorce umbrella, power,property, money, children ...
How do we want to negotiate all of this, not only so that it works for us as a couple, but also so that it supports us in bringing our couple's tikkun (healing) to the rip in the fabric of the universe that is ours, and only ours, to mend.

For each world, each individual writes up their
individual understanding of that step.
For each step, the two come together and negotiate
their joint understanding of that step.





Sunday, December 20, 2009

A Back-of-the-Match-book Rationale for Judaism

The starting point for my Rationale for Judaism is Lurianic Kabbalah. This is the Jewish mysticism of Rabbi Yitzchak Luria of Tzfat in Northern Israel circa 1570. The dominant influences on my understanding of the Kabbalah of the ARI (Rabbi Luria) come from a Gerer Chasidic text and Rabbi Mordechai Finley, one of my rabbinic school teachers at AJR CA in Los Angeles.

Jewish mysticism, like many mysticisms, has deep gnostic roots. Gnosis means true knowledge in Greek. Gnosticism posits the following:
  • There are two worlds. This lower world is some kind of fuzzy projection of the upper world of truth. Gnostic philosophies vary from pessimistic to optimistic as a function of how fuzzy or corrupt the projection is. The most famous gnostic philosophy is Plato's world of ideal forms. The relationship of this world to the world of ideal forms is described by the allegory of the cave.
  • Appearances are deceiving. The goal of the gnostic is to perceive (experience) the true upper world while living in this world.
  • The good news is that gnosis - true knowledge - is possible. Each gnostic path has its practice or method of achieving gnosis.
As seen above, gnostic philosophy is fundamentally dualistic: there are two worlds. Kabbalah and its modern descendant, Chasidism, is a fairly optimistic gnosticism, which wants to have it both ways:
  • Dualism: This world is a broken projection of the world of truth - olam ha-emet. Isaac Bashevis Singer uses this term in his Kabbalah-soaked stories.
  • Non-dualism: It's all God. As the Zohar Chadash puts it: "You (God) fill all the cosmoi, and at the same time surround all the cosmoi (like a mother embracing her child), and without You there is no reality whatsoever at all!"
Here's where things get psycho-spiritual: We feel broken because we are part of a cosmos which is inherently broken. Why? Because God failed in God's attempt to create a perfect universe. Think of a failed fusion containment experiment. The powerful ray of energy (kav yashar) was supposed to vivify the vessels (the ten sefirot) containing the blue-print of the world. But the vessels - alas! - were not strong enough to contain the immense energies. The result: the Big Bang. This is the Kabbalistic understanding of the run-up to "Let there be light." The exploded pieces of the vessels went flying off in every direction, like a pot smashed into a trillion shards. In fact, the universe and everything in it - including us - are those
broken shards. No wonder we feel the way we do. No wonder, we feel broken, despairing, depressed, with a gaping hole in the middle of us, a yearning that nothing - it seems - can fill.

We are feeling nothing less than the broken-ness of God! Our broken-ness and God's broken-ness are one.

And yet ... each shard contains sacred sparks of divinity that yearn to re-connect in one-ness to their divine Source. Our job is not to wallow in despair and depression, saying: it is impossible to put the vessels back together, to repair the cosmos to its divinely planned perfection. Indeed, this very despair is the work of the sitra achra - the dark side.

Rather, say: Each one of us has come into the universe to perform a sacred task of repair (tikkun) that I and only I can do. I am a partner with God in the creation and restoration of the universe. God needs me to do my job. God needs us individually and collectively to unite the shattered pieces of the vessels, to unify (yichud) God!

To summarize, let's get back to the structure of the back of the match-book:
  • The existential problem
  • The solution
  • The path (practice) for getting there
How do we fit the above into this structure? Here goes:

  • The problem: We feel broken, we feel that the whole universe is a broken place.
  • The solution: Find and do your tikkun, your sacred task that you and you alone can perform in stitching up a rip in the fabric of the universe. As my teacher Rabbi Steve Fisdel teaches: it doesn't matter if you start by fixing a rip out there in the world or a rip in your own heart. To repair the one is to repair the other. Despite appearances, the path of transcendence and the path of immanence are one.
  • The path to tikkun. This is big subject and I will deal with it - bli neder (G!d willing) in an up-coming blog post.
Critique: A legitimate criticism of this approach is that not everyone feels broken and not everyone sees the world as a broken place. That's fine. Then this model of the world is not for them. They will use some other model to make sense of the world and their lives. For as sure as God made little ponies, the question is not personal philosophy versus lack of personal philosophy, but rather which philosophy.

I will argue that this world view, or something like it, is the basis for much of Judaism, Christianity and Buddhism .. and who knows what else. I will want to explore the match-book-cover rationale for Christianity and Buddhism in up-coming blog posts. And, famously, this world view of broken-ness is precisely the under-pinning of every twelve step program, where broken-ness manifests itself as addiction.

Just to remind myself, I also want to explore the rationale for Jewish twelve step groups.

Happy end of Chanukkah, shalom uvrachah - peace and blessings.